Hmmm, what does this actually mean?  I often here people say they are simply standing up for themselves when in actual fact they are being critical of another or trying to convince them they are wrong.  So inevitably this ‘Standing up for self’ approach doesn’t work.

I am sure you have all heard of the phrase – you must walk a mile in anothers shoes.  Well – my Grandad – or Puppa as we called him said it to me many times as I was growing up.  I was blessed for most of the first thirteen years of my life to know this wonderful soul and to live with him and Nan on what was to be our family property.